Here's my mix and master. Really enjoyed working with this track :) There was a fair amount of cymbal spill on the snare track but it was a nice challenge to find ways to tame it in the mix. Hope you like it.
Feel free to get in contact if you want any mixing done :)
Edit - updated the link with a revision. Some of the guitars were out of phase so I've corrected that and I've made a few minor adjustments to the guitar, overheads and snare eq. I also changed the mastering settings slightly (engaged the RMS comp in LimiterNo6 with very subtle settings). I also lowered the vocals by around 1.5 dB as in the OP you state the vocalist prefers vocals lower in the mix - this afforded the opportunity to experiment with the vocal compressor - I ended up backing off a few settings which resulted in a slightly more dynamic performance.